Frames and focus

by Tess on April 19, 2010 · 11 comments

in Learning,Sacred living

Seeing through frames

I’ve been thinking about how we frame our lives, what we focus on.

Over Easter I saw the beautiful and familiar chapel at Turvey Abbey from a different perspective. There were many more in the congregation than usual and I couldn’t sit where I normally do. I was right at the back, my line of sight into the chapel framed by a polished wooden arch. This gave me a limited view. It struck me I was engaging my whole self to a far greater degree than usual. Leaning forward to see, and opening my ears to hear, I was using my body in prayer. Of necessity, I was more focused and less distracted.

There’s  a beautiful story about the framing of light in Elizabeth Goudge’s book The Bird in the Tree. At the end of the First World War, a young boy sees and hears things no child should as his wounded soldier father dies a terrible and protracted death:

…Terrified by it, he had fled one evening to the dark attic, slammed the door and flung himself down sobbing on the floor. He…sobbed himself sick and exhausted until at last, childlike, he had forgotten what it was he was crying about and had become instead absorbed in the moonlight on the floor. It had been like a pool of silver, enclosed and divided up into neat squares by the bars of the window. He had counted the squares and the lines, dark and light, and had been delighted with them…In some vague way he had understood that dark things are necessary; without them the silver moonlight would just stream away into nothingness, but with them it can be held and arranged into beautiful squares.

Information overload

As I sit here tapping away on my keyboard, I have easy access to more information than my grandparents could have accumulated during their entire lifetimes. We are served up an endless supply of goodies and distractions. We’re so afraid that there’s something vitally important we’ll miss, or that we’ll lose the opportunity to have fun or to explore some new excitement. I’m as guilty of this as everyone, grabbing for the next shiny thing.

Depth not breadth

There’s another kind of focus framed by living simply, leaving most of those distractions unexplored. It’s scary but it can make our lives very special. It’s illustrated by this excerpt from Crispin Sartwell’s intriguing book Six Names of Beauty:

The basic structure of the blues is almost always the same and the repertoire of riffs fairly limited. Indeed, part of the richness of the blues derives from its narrowness: any slight deviation takes on great significance within a system that is so restricted, in which the expectations of the listener are so determined. The arc of the song becomes evident from the first few moves. The expressive intensity of the blues derives from its roughness and simplicity. When you no longer have to focus on what the next change will be, you focus on how to express yourself within it, how to exploit it emotionally. Spontaneity follows on and reflects discipline.

I think there’s an important message for us in the concept of focus. Its discipline brings depth and profound richness. And it’s enormously difficult for people like me (and you?) whose love of new things keeps us flitting on.

Depth AND breadth?

Can we combine depth and discipline with spontaneity and joy? Yes, we can, and I’ll be writing about that soon. Meanwhile what do you think? What tips can you share about living with both focus and spontaneity?

Image by OliBac

Elsewhere:

I love this poem at Don’t Eat Alone, which sets out with great wit how writing can become a chore rather than a joy. Mary Jaksch’s post about deep listening at Goodlife Zen could, I think, be applied to deep blog reading. I know I often skim, and perhaps you do too. I just trimmed (with regret) a few blogs from my reading list so I can focus more.

And I hope you like the facelift I’ve given Anchors and Masts. Any feedback is most welcome, especially if there’s anything you find confusing or difficult to read (I might still do a bit of fine-tuning with the colours).


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Cathy April 19, 2010 at 2:39 pm

I was having these same thoughts about simplicity this morning. I recently moved into a much smaller home, and am enjoying it much. As I was picking up around the house this morning, I thought of how the demands of upkeep are much less, and how it frees me to have time for reading, reflecting and creating art.
As for the distractions of the computer, well I am working on that. :>) and somewhat successful so far.

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Les Hutchinson April 19, 2010 at 6:00 pm

Funny, I was thinking about focus at work today – first day back after a holiday; so many things apparently screaming for attention, but most of them are distractions, not urgent, not important… So I chose to focus on a few important things – tomorrow morning I will deal with one important thing, then another in the afternoon. The rest of the flotsam and jetsam can wait – if it doesn’t get binned first!

In a world of fast and furious technology-driven exchange of data, it’s easy to lose sight of what’s important and/or to feel overwhelmed.

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claire April 19, 2010 at 11:47 pm

Focus is not easy for me. As to spontaneity, i find that it does not always come at the right time. Maybe because I am an NF among NT. Imagine being an extrovert in a family of introverts…. Hmmmmm….

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Sunrise Sister April 20, 2010 at 3:44 am

Hi Tess,

I like the new “look” – banner is beautiful – photography site is where? Is that one of your photos?

xo

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Tess April 20, 2010 at 11:34 am

@Cathy hi, welcome to my blog, it’s good to see you here. Thanks for your comment – moving to a smaller house can be really positive in its effect, as you’ve described. I’m experimenting with actually switching off my computer for periods of time during the day.
@Les, your comment immediately made me think of a post I wrote about someone who was in the July 2005 London bombings. It’s here: http://www.anchormast.com/2007/05/17/is-urgent-important/
@Claire, hmmm indeed. I’m NT, but very borderline extrovert/introvert. I have to say I smiled when you said spontaneity doesn’t come at the right time. That’s would be because it’s spontaneous… ;-)
@SS, thank you very much. The photo is not mine, I cropped it from one I bought literally years ago from one of those photographic sites. Can’t recall which, maybe istock. Then I did a filter effect on it that I’m quite pleased with. Next step is to make it clickable so it will take the reader back to the home page. Haven’t quite cracked the coding for that yet!

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Christine (Blisschick) Reed April 20, 2010 at 1:46 pm

Tess,

First, I love the new look. Excellent work. Though I loved the old, also. ;)

Second, this post is just fantastic. So FULL, so DEEP.

I find lately — if I had to describe the feelings I am having — that I am reaching some sort of limit. I keep thinking I just need a little down time or a small break, but I am starting to think it’s bigger than that.

It feels scary, ya know? I’ve been blogging for two years…how do I change it to something that I find nurturing rather than obligatory? Should I quit tweeting…but I might, as you put it here, “miss something.”

I am in overload mode right now and not sure how to deal with it so I look forward to your follow up post on this.

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lucy April 20, 2010 at 1:56 pm

you’ve hit a topic i’m wrestling with on a daily basis. my best tips usually come from my zen kitty, aslan, who reminds me that breathing (or in his case, purring) is the only thing that’s really essential.

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Tess April 20, 2010 at 8:45 pm

@Christine, thank you! I wonder if because you’ve been doing so much fantastic stuff on the physical/emotional side – your yoga, your dancing – that the writing has seemed a little less natural. Perhaps you’re having a two-year birthday reaction. They don’t call them the terrible twos for nothing! I love tweeting but I set strict time limits and I don’t do it every day. And…
@Lucy I think you, or rather Aslan, are right. Breathing is the thing.

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Roxanne April 22, 2010 at 12:47 pm

A timely post. This post somehow got me to thinking about fotografi ~ the practice of which I immerse myself of late ~ as a sort of metaphor for life. Indeed, the art of fotografi lies in framing and focus, and also in manipulating light. There is so much all around me, amazing beauty if viewed through a lense of frame and focus and if not, then somewhat chaotically composed, conceptual or visual noise. Also, I started out very simply ~ only the camera’s internal memory, which affords a very limited number of exposures ~ 24, I think. Focus within focus became routine. Constant consideration of focus becomes not a constraint, but a foundation or supporting structure for expression, spontaneity. And so, there’s certainly nothing wrong in experiencing new things, but perhaps we need not accumulate each of those experiences, perhaps we just sink our presence into each experience?

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Tess April 22, 2010 at 8:09 pm

Thanks Roxanne. I like what you say about your art, and your phrase “since our presence into each experience”. It is that sinking that’s important I think, not looking around to see what comes next.

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