In this week’s enCouraging Bliss column, BlissChick is talking about our bodies as healthy vehicles. In fact there’s been a whole lot of discussion about body image over at BlissChick this week, which has been very interesting.
I just remembered I wrote a post about this a year ago, which you can read here. I was quite surprised when I re-read it because it seems I really have changed in the last year. I can hardly remember feeling what I was feeling when I wrote:
I have a lot of issues with my body. There’s too much of it, so I try occasionally to starve it, or indulge in extreme regimes then give up, and then sometimes I stuff it too full of food to compensate, and to punish it.
I went on to write about my plan to eat what I wanted, when I wanted, take some moderate exercise and pamper myself a bit. Which is what I’ve been doing during the last year. And I’ve lost a little weight and become a little fitter. But far more importantly, it seems I have a completely different relationship with my physical self, which I was unaware of until now.
BlissChick set us a task: to write down in three columns the different parts of our body, our instinctive reactions to them, and then “the beautiful truth” about the parts of our body. When I came to this last part of the exercise, I realised I’d pretty much already written the beautiful truth in the second column.
So I’m feeling thankful that at this time of blossoming, and of equal balance between day and night, I seem to have slipped into a better balance with my body.
Image by jam343
Elsewhere:
In this season of growth, I know I’m not the only person delighted by the Obamas’ decision to plant a kitchen garden at the White House, which you can read about here at Elaine’s place.
And I’m discovering that it is the Baha’i New Year. The more I find out about this faith of peace and unity, the more I hope that Obama’s (yes, him again!) initiative in reaching out to Iran, where Baha’is are terribly persecuted, bears fruit.


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Tess, That is SO COOL! The fact that you wrote the “beautiful truth” in that column of first reactions, where most of us just tear ourselves to pieces. You rock!
(I Mister Linky’ed you — who know where he went for a little while?!?!)
Wonderful!
tess, so very cool that you set your intention last year and without even being aware it followed you into this year! blisschick’s exercise was quite enlightening for me in many ways. encouraging, actually
you indeed rock, my friend!!!
Tess,
Uplifting post about setting a goal and subliminally achieving it – high five post!
Love the beautiful spring blossom photo. I’m hoping that our spring really arrived this week – we had an almost 70 degree day on Thursday and high 60′s Friday – soft rain today, which I don’t mind as the bulbs do need rain.
The beautiful truth about our bodies. How appropriate to explore this topic at the changing of the season.
@Blisschick: thanks for such an interesting topic, I’m so enjoying all the discussions.
@Emma: thanks for your comment and welcome to my blog. I’ve just been exploring your blog and enjoying it very much. And thank you for the reminder there about World Water Day, I’d completely forgotten. (Slaps own wrist!)
@Lucy: yes I enjoyed reading your post on this. I remember your lovely hands from our trip to Paris, holding maps, books, tickets, and unfortunately also your broken camera that day the Louvre had it’s revenge upon us!
@SS and tinkerbell: even though I love the inward focus of Winter, the hopefulness and the kind of bubbling of the senses that comes with Spring is so beautiful. An appropriate time indeed to explore the topic.
thank you for your lovely tribute to my hands. perhaps the venus de milo was jealous? hmmmm.
Great posts — including the links you posted, Tess. As you noted from my own blog and newspaper column, this is a topic after my own heart — and a topic that’s especially important for women in midlife. Our culture’s “standards” of physical beauty, for women of any age, are extremely biased and totally unforgiving. As you point out here, we must learn to be kinder to ourselves and to truly *see* our own beauty in the mirror. Keep on blossoming!
Thanks Cindy!
Hi Tess, I played with Twitter today for the first time ever. Thanks for the inspiration for the excursion, and it really was fun, but it just didn’t fit my needs, like a beautiful dress that looks great on the mannequin, but rather awkward on one’s own figure. ((-:
kigen – what a great analogy, and the perfect way to approach something like Twitter. There’s so much choice, it can over-complicate.